“How do you all make friends?” Someone asked that in our Instagram comment section recently and it had us thinking — that’s a great question.
It’s hard to nail down the exact ingredients for a friendship, but common interests or getting out of your comfort zone in a group setting are a good foundation. Here are suggestions we crowd-sourced from replies on social media.
Book clubs
Start a new chapter (see what we did there) by joining a literary discussion club. Don’t know where to find one? Meetup is a handy resource with a library-full of options depending on what you’re keen on reading.
Trivia
Portland is home to several companies that host trivia nights at bars and restaurants nearly every day of the week. There’s nothing better than bonding over obscure knowledge that no one else has.
Karaoke
Singing around strangers might not be everyone’s idea of a good time, but once you’ve gotten over any self-consciousness, you may find it easier to make connections on things like music preferences or going to concerts. Belt it out at The Alibi Tiki Lounge or Spare Room.
Tabletop games
Cooperation (and maybe a dash of competition) is the name of this game. Gather for a round of Catan at Mox Boarding House or unleash your inner mage on a Dungeons & Dragons quest at TPK Brewing Co.
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Dog parks
Sometimes all you need to break the ice is a furry friend and room for them to roam. Might as well chat with the other pet owners while Fido chases a ball for the hundredth time, right? Routine is on your side, so you’ll likely start to see familiar faces.