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Date night ideas for every type of Portlander

Got a hot new fling? Hoping to spice things up with your longtime partner? We’re here to help plan your next date in the City of Roses.

An electric light display that spells out L-O-V-E at night

Electric love at the Portland Winter Light Festival.

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Okay, so maybe that’s not exactly how the 2000s sitcom went, but if Ted Mosby had consulted us for date night ideas, we could’ve shaved the show down to two seasons (and saved his kids a lot of time). Regardless — whether you’ve met “the one” or are hoping to impress someone new, we’ve got 25+ local date night ideas that are legen — wait for it — dary.

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Evening and brunch shows are scheduled every weekend at Darcelle XV Showplace.

For the ones who want a night out on the town

  • Live it up at the longest-running drag cabaret on the West Coast, Darcelle XV Showplace, founded by the late Walter Cole.
  • Descend into the Jack London Revue — a small hideaway jazz club that hosts world-class musicians.
  • Move your feet and spend some dynamic time with your partner at Southeast Portland nightclub, Holocene.
  • Step into The Coffin Club for a concert, burlesque show, or tarot reading surrounded by gothic decor.
  • Head to a renovated former church — Mississippi Studios — for an intimate live music experience.
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Pro tip: Ask for a seat under the central tree when you make a reservation at Janken.

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If the way to their heart is through their stomach

  • Does your significant other love bagels? Could they eat pasta for breakfast, lunch, and dinner? Learn to make their favorite food by taking a class at Cookshop.
  • Nosh on farm-to-table European small plates at Navarre.
  • Embrace the vintage pizza parlor vibes at Pizza Jerk.
  • Set love ablaze with a flaming scorpion bowl at tropical-themed dive, The Alibi Tiki Lounge.
  • Pedal your way around Portland’s craft beer scene with a BrewCycle ride.
  • Get a scoop of New Zealand-style ice cream at Nico’s Ice Cream, or skip the line of tourists at Salt & Straw by picking up a pint to go. Grab a couple of sampling spoons so you can enjoy it together while sitting on a bench.
  • Take the relationship to new heights at The Hoxton’s trendy rooftop bar, Tope.
  • Get cozy and sip a glass of wine in a candlelit nook at M Bar.
  • Sit under the pale silk petals of a decorative cherry tree while eating Japanese-Korean fusion dishes at Janken.
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“What’s in a name? A rose by any other name would smell as sweet.” Thanks for the line, Will.

Photo by Ben McBee, PDXtoday

If you love the great outdoors

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Don’t forget the peanuts and Cracker Jacks to go with your Portland Pickles.

Photo by Cambrie Juarez, PDXtoday

For the ones who like to play games (just not with your heart)

  • Test your competitive compatibility with an evening of pub trivia. Try Untapped Trivia, which supports Family Dogs New Life Animal Shelter.
  • At Portland Axe Throwing, you can demonstrate your usefulness in a zombie apocalypse by hucking weapons at wooden targets while holding an IPA in the other hand.
  • Show your shared love for a local sports team at a home game for the Trail Blazers, Timbers, Thorns, or Pickles, to name a few.
  • Bring your appetite and a board game to Mox Boarding House. You can also borrow a game from the restaurant’s library, or buy a brand-new one from the shop attached to the restaurant.
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Pop-up picnics at Abbey Road Farm in Carlton start at $239.

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If you’re really hoping that it works out

  • Show off your ability to plan ahead by snagging a hard-to-get reservation at Kann, AKA America’s “Best New Restaurant.”
  • Watch Portland’s famed — and free — avian show as thousands of migrating Vaux’s swifts make their annual stop at Chapman Elementary School. With so many birds, the odds of getting pooped on are high… and some consider that a sign of good fortune.
  • You and your date won’t want to jump ship after spending time together on the river. Book a sailing adventure or rent a kayak, Jet Ski, pontoon boat, and more through GetMyBoat.
  • Find out what falling (in love) really feels like by mastering the wind tunnels at iFLY Indoor Skydiving.
  • Book a two-hour luxury pop-up picnic at Abbey Road Farm. It includes wine, a basket full of goodies, and Pinterest-worthy seating in a picturesque setting.
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If you visit Lloyd Center Ice Rink during the holidays, you’ll get to skate around a massive Christmas tree complete with falling snow.

Photo by Cambrie Juarez, PDXtoday

If you want an “old fashioned”-style date

If you wanna show off by knowing all the hottest events in town

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  • Stay up-to-date on the coolest local events around Portland with our events page (and check out this guide for our tips on navigating the page).

What did we miss? If you know a perfect date spot that’s not on the list, guide us in the right direction using this survey.

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